There are many times during the course of starting, sustaining and evolving a business when the enterprise owner feels as if all doors have slammed shut. It can sometimes seem as if weve exhausted all avenues and resources, and we have no idea not a clue where to go or what to do next. That can be a pretty unsettling moment, yet it's one that most of us have experienced, and will likely experience again.
In fact, Ive spoken with many business owners who remember times when they felt certain they were on the brink of failure, with no other recourse but to hang their heads, pack it in, and slink off in shame. And what happened then? In almost every case, the business owner tells of opportunities that suddenly presented themselves, doors (or windows) that suddenly opened, resources that magically appeared, and other circumstances that serendipitously came together. They often say that because that one door closed to them, they considered options and opportunities they otherwise would never have considered.
Weve all heard the old saying, "When one door shuts, another one opens." While seemingly trite, this saying holds a lot of wisdom. The problem or challenge is that sometimes were so focused on the one door that has closed, insistent that there's only one particular approach (the one that doesn't seem to be working, or never really got going at all), that we dont see the multitude of other opportunities, possibilities and resources that are all around us. There is always opportunity; something (or something else) is always possible. It just might not be quite what we had in mind, or be in line with our idea of the perfect course of action or timing.
So right now, if you feel like youre surrounded by closed doors, if youre thinking that what you had in mind just isnt possible, or if you like the idea of expanding your realm of possibility, maybe theres an opportunity to take another look.
Steps for seeing the possibilities
Seeing possibilities requires a very specific way of looking at things. Where other exercises might call for being contrarian or playing devils advocate, "possibility scanning" requires an openness, a sense of gratitude and appreciation, a willingness to ask new questions and not nay-say or edit. It requires us to clear out some space in our minds, which are usually filled with clutter about how things have to happen, what schedule is ideal, and how much of a crisis it seems when things dont confirm to our rigid expectations. As consultant and author Margaret Wheatley has written, "We see newness as an affront to our plans."
To identify a bouquet of possibilities, you have to believe if only for a little while that absolutely anything and everything is possible, and that any hurdles (if there are any) will be easily overcome by resources and avenues that will present themselves to you. You have to believe that timing will be perfect. Even if such a receptive, hopeful, calm and positive state is not your normal way of thinking, there are exercises that can get you into this frame of mind required for seeing whats possible.
Remember, there will be plenty of time to put on your critics hat when you decide how youd like to put your chosen possibilities into your action plan. But for now, put aside your thinking about scarcity, limitation and barriers, and enter the garden of possibility.
Exercises
The best exercises for seeing possibilities are those that make good use of all of your senses, and involve both inward- and outward-looking activities. For example, you might do a hike or walking meditation to get the ideas flowing, and then do a visual collage representing all of the things that excite you and awaken your best self. You might engage a friend or colleague in a dynamic discussion, and then find a quiet space to jot a few reflections in your "possibilities journal."
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